Saturday, July 14, 2012

Is She Finer Than Me?

Is she finer than me?  You wake up, take a shower, caress, and spray yourself with your favorite perfume. Then, you walk over to the mirror and tell yourself, "self , I am fabulous " you apply your Mac, MABLELINE  or lip gloss  and leave the house.  Once you arrive to your destination, you see " that guy" ! He has been on your mind all week long so you confidently walk over to say hello when all of a sudden...… in walks " Her". He stares and smiles at her and your jaw hits the floor,  you eyeball her and start to second guess yourself, your confidence taking a tumble a little worse than scarlet. The true question then becomes is she Finer than me?  The reality is when you walk into a room, there is always going to be someone finer than you, and if there isn't, you are "Her"  That is the main reason why us Women ( myself included) should not compare ourselves to each other. Now I know it's hard, I understand it's a struggle not Looking at that Christina Milinan Video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5z5Mvyp1QHw and not wanting to drop it low and pick it up slow, you either got to much to pick up or not enough to drop. So don't sweat it, you are unique and beautiful, you are worth it.  From the standpoint of the media and what we have been prescribed it's so easy to only focus on outer appearance.  However from the true perspective, Gods, you are unique,beautiful  and  no two people can be compared because they each shine  differently.  If you love God and have confidence in yourself you are always  "her" both inside and out. So next time you leave the house Don't let your sexy run dry, embrace the fact that you are unique and if "He" can't see it , relax and wait, because  there will be someone that comes along who can.